The uselessness of suffering, of María Jesús Álava Reyes :
"Personally I have always been fortunate to work with great people, because they were not excellent, which also has been, simply do not have in my mind, and not occupying a minimum of my energy. However, had committed an unforgivable mistake if I had not extracted the useful lessons from these experiences. All persons are or have been useful in our lives because we could all learn something, and sometimes something as basic as not letting it eat the moral! and do not suffer unnecessarily for the simple fact that these people seem to have, as one mission, the purpose of life bitter.
The human being is as complex as exciting, but it's true that sometimes we would have felt happier if we had not had the privilege know, share or work with certain people. There will be few readers who have not been found in their lives with some of these people, and certainly have more than once cursed his bad luck to coincide with them. But the truth is we do not usually have the opportunity to elect the majority of our companions.
When someone chooses are students which school we go, and luck determines the type of students and teachers who accompany us in a key stage in our lives. Later in the work we do not have many options to select those who will be our fellow workers. Even when we can choose the kind of restaurant, cinema or theater that we go, we can hardly control the people who are around us in those sites. Could go on giving examples that showed us our little choice in relation to many of the people we encounter in our lives, but I'm sure by now most of us are aware of this reality, however, evidence shows, day by day, we insist on not accepting this fact and, instead of generating resources that make us feel good about ourselves, we engage in a struggle as futile as stressful: they change the people around us and make what we think they should do!
How many Sometimes we hear that so and so or Somebody's niece is very bad because he had very bad luck with peers who have touched? and instead to seek, within the so-and-turn, the solutions to this situation, we get lost in a string of endless arguments that justify the discomfort of this person. Valiente we are giving aid! Instead of him from that pit, we are saying that will still be falling, because it has no grip.
may seem too crude, that's what we do normally, and thereby fall into one of the most characteristic errors of our society believe that our welfare depends to a large extent, on the other. Fortunately, reality is very different, and humans can extract useful lessons from these situations, for it will serve his intelligence and experience, but instead of doing so is dumped to find arguments to justify their discomfort, will fall into a false determinism that vitiate and condition of his life. "
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