I calls attention to such excesses that many people refer to as "enjoy life." The idea is to also be that if you do not "enjoy life" of young people, we will not ever because after have to "settle down." In my opinion, here are driving a few pre-established social beliefs far from encouraging. It is as if there were internal feeling that feeling like you enjoy life you have to commit abuses and excesses that will test even their health. But by this token, then all parents should be a bitter, with so many burdens and responsibilities. Personally, I find it very sad that "fun" means delirious excesses and abuses and unchecked. Nobody says that there is not a little crazy, I've drunk a bottle once and done, but if we do not set any rational limit the consequences can be dire. In addition, may have lived many different experiences you should have an overall knowledge over the years will make it easier to identify what they want, but what price we paid for doing things this way? For example, a person used to do as he pleases at all times (it seems that is what people mean by "enjoy life", which otherwise shows the dangerous level of hedonism to we are coming), it is likely that rather know little or nothing about "decision making", an exercise that takes a lifetime to be refined.
seems we want the reward at the beginning, without having done anything to deserve it. It is thought which must be exploited to do now all the crazy things happen to us because then comes the bad. Teach us to see that the reward comes at the end, after planting, and not the beginning and to see that the excesses do not have to do with fun or mature or "settle down" with being embarrassed, is an urgent task and responsibility of all parents and educators.
Furthermore, the reasoning "far exceeded all to know what you want in the future" just shows, if anything, a possible way to achieve this goal is the clarity of ideas, but it is neither possible nor the only way I seems the most healthy. And when I say that I disagree with this reasoning is not because si tuviera una relación con una persona joven y asumiera este planteamiento tendría que cortar diciendo: "Mira, tenemos que dejarlo porque aún eres muy joven y tienes mucho que explorar antes de decidir si quieres estar conmigo"; sino porque yo también tuve 20 años y cuando tenía 20 años no pensaba así y no cometí esos abusos ni adquirí todas esas experiencias de la vida, y a pesar de ello no me ha hecho falta llegar a los 35 ni a los 30, ya con 25 tenía bastante claro qué quería en la vida y qué no quería (al menos a nivel personal, que es de lo que hablo). Ergo hay más vías posibles para alcanzar la "iluminación" que el camino de Dionisos (el dios más vago de todo el Olimpo, by the way). "I'm bored because I druggie nor frequent brothels (including service clubs) or because I do not easily lend itself to transactions meat? Be. I personally am very satisfied and proud of my life. I enjoy my way and those other ways that I did not happen either. Everyone is everyone, that's for sure, but after complaints come not suffering fools, but serious, that could have been avoided had done things differently.
I do not want when you have 35 years and finally you know what you want because you have tried all kinds of good and bad experiences, discover it what you want you have lost it long ago and can not recover, and all for making the asshole.
And do not say these words with resentment because I am not going or have gone through an experience that moves me to want to unburden myself in this regard. It's just my theoretical opinion on the matter. I have done things differently and I got the same result as allegedly being pursued: to keep things clear, therefore, or am I an exception or an example of how things can be done otherwise.
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